The Divorce Readiness Framework™
A calm, strategic approach to preparing for divorce — emotionally, financially, and practically.
Divorce is not just a legal process. It is a human one.
While attorneys manage filings, timelines, and court procedures, many individuals are left without support for the emotional regulation, strategic preparation, and organization required to move through divorce with clarity and confidence.
The Divorce Readiness Framework™ was created to fill that gap.
This framework supports individuals before and during divorce by helping them stabilize emotionally, clarify their situation, organize critical information, and prepare for the most demanding parts of the process — including mediation, court, and life after divorce.
Here’s Your Map
Step 1: STABILIZE
Regain footing before making decisions
Focus: Emotional regulation, nervous system grounding, psychological safety, and restoring a sense of internal control.
What’s happening here: Clients are often dysregulated, shocked, grieving, or overwhelmed. This step slows things down so decisions aren’t made from panic or fear.
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SCORCHED
Goal: Stabilize emotions so clarity becomes possible.
Step 2: CLARIFY
Understand your situation and focus your energy
Focus: Discernment, education, and narrowing attention to what actually applies to the client’s circumstances.
What’s happening here: Clients often consume too much information — much of it irrelevant or alarming. This step filters noise and replaces it with targeted understanding.
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Goal: Replace confusion with discernment.
Step 3: ORGANIZE
Turn scattered information into usable clarity
Focus: Gathering, documenting, and structuring financial, personal, and historical information.
What’s happening here: Clients often have the information — it’s just fragmented, emotional, or undocumented. This step creates order and credibility
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Goal: Create a clear, chronological timeline that supports legal strategy.
Step 4: PREPARE
Navigate the process with confidence instead of fear
Focus: Rehearsal, expectation-setting, communication structure, and emotional containment during high-stress events
What’s happening here: Clients fear court, mediation, and confrontation. This step reduces fear through preparation and practice.
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Goal: Enter mediation, court, and post-divorce life prepared and steady.
The Divorce Readiness Framework™ supports individuals who:
● Are preparing for divorce or already in the process
● Feel overwhelmed, disoriented, or emotionally flooded
● Are navigating high-conflict or toxic dynamics
● Want to approach divorce calmly and strategically
● Need support beyond what legal services provide
What to Expect:
Clients are guided step-by-step through the framework using structured conversations, targeted resources, and practical preparation — always paced according to individual needs. Support may include curated workbooks, guided preparation, and one-on-one coaching designed to help clients regain clarity and confidence throughout the process.
Next Step
If you’re preparing for divorce and want support that honors both the emotional and strategic realities of the process, I invite you to schedule a complimentary session. Together, we’ll determine whether the Divorce Readiness Framework™ is the right fit for you
